There are a lot of heartbreaking events in a person’s life that has made them lose faith in true love. For many people, true love is nothing but just a figment of the imagination. And we cannot blame them for thinking that way. There may have been a lot of painful circumstances that led them to believe that there is no such thing as true love. However, despite the question and doubts, there are still a lot of things that will prove that true love certainly exists.
If you also have the same question in your heart, here are just some of the proofs that tell us that there is true love.
1. Old married couples
Staying committed to someone for a lifetime is something. It is a proof of true love. Being married is more than just the romance and the wedding itself. It is easy to say that you love someone but it is hard to stay in love especially after knowing and discovering everything about your partner. When you learn about their flaws and imperfections, and when you discover about each other’s differences, love already becomes more of a decision- a decision to stay loyal, faithful and committed to this person whom you promised to be spending the rest of your life with. And that is what true love is all about, choosing to stay with the person despite and in spite of everything.
One of the most difficult virtues to practice is forgiveness. And in any romantic relationship or in any relationship, learning how to forgive may be a difficult thing to do, but it is really very important. Forgiveness is not a sign that you are weak but it is a sign that you value your relationship more than your partner’s flaws. And it could only be because of one thing, and that’s true love. True love means you are willing to look beyond a person’s imperfections and you are always willing to listen, understand and give another chance. It may be hard to forget but it does not also mean that you could not forgive especially when you love the person. It is your love that allows you and empowers you to look beyond a person’s mistakes.
Music is yet another proof that true love exists. When you listen to a beautiful song, you will notice the way that it moves you, inspires you, and touches your soul. It is also because of true love that composers and song writers were able to create wonderful lyrics and harmony. All of these things cannot just be created without feelings. If you have not experienced true love from someone just yet, music can let you feel it. It is through music that you can feel as if someone’s joy is also your own, or someone’s pain is also your own.
Music is also one form of expression when people are in love. People sing their hearts out and they feel that every single line of the song describes how they feel.
4. Married celebrities
You might be wondering why celebrities have to be emphasized here. Well, that is simply because of the fact that staying together in marriage is already difficult, let alone when both of you are celebrities. Celebrity married couples who manage to stay together are admirable. That is because they manage to stay true to their promise of true love amidst all the glory and glamour that the Hollywood offers. There are several married celebrities who stood the test of time and fame and these are the kinds of relationships that prove that there is true love.
5. Arguments and fights
Arguing with your partner does not necessarily mean that you don’t love each other and that what you have for each other is not true love. In fact, arguments are essential to a growing relationship because things do not always have to be perfect. However, when you truly love someone, arguments will open opportunities for the two of you to grow mature and be better individuals especially when you choose to stay together and rise above these challenges and difficulties.