To be honest, if you are not the most handsome guy in the world, chances are you will need to be a good conversationalist in order to attract ladies from Eastern Europe who are quite sophisticated and elegant. It’s time to learn how to use conversation skills to build true emotional connection with a lady of your dreams. You can take some notes. You are welcome 😉
The importance of holding eye contact:
When you hold eye contact with a woman, you’d better blink the usual amount of times so you look more natural. Otherwise, you are literally staring at the lady and that’s very intense / creepy / weird.
What’s more, just relax and try not to open your eyes more than natural. Apart from that, please don’t push your head forward because your head is not supposed to be ahead of the rest of your body. At the initial stage of a conversation, you need to make sure you hold eye contact with the Eastern European lady so you can hold her attention and keep her interested / engaged. Then you can gradually build an emotional connection and attraction.
If you’d like to break eye contact, you should do that when you’re talking, not when the lady is talking. That makes you look more confident and high-value.
True insights into human dynamics:
- When you break eye contact as you are talking, you have higher value.
- When you break eye contact as she is talking, you have lower value.
How to talk to an Eastern European woman:
Most men only do small talk with ladies and tend to ask way too many questions. As a result, you must remember this: Don’t ask a woman too many questions as that is too much pressure on the lady. Due to globalization, a lot of women in Eastern Europe have seen western men like you before; therefore, they are not going to be impressed merely because you’re from a developed country.
You must understand how to have a comfortable and relaxed conversation with an elegant lady. So, the structure of what you say should be 80% statements and 20% questions. Also, asking fewer questions makes you look less desperate / needy.
You can talk about emotional topics with ladies in Eastern Europe. Most guys only have boring and dry conversations with ladies; thus, you should elicit emotional content in your interaction with a lady. Useful topics that may achieve this effect are: her family and friends, hobbies, her future plans and her childhood. Well, as I see it, the easiest topic is her interests and hobbies. Please have a look at this example here:
WOMAN: “I love writing.”
MAN: “Oh, I’m so impressed. Most people don’t like writing because they don’t even love reading. You must be really talented. It’s refreshing to meet someone who likes writing so much. I’m pretty sure you are a great writer.”
This is a powerful response because this guy is empathetic no matter he likes writing or not. Clearly, it is an effective way to build true rapport with an elegant lady.
Most guys have no idea when it comes to engage women; consequently, they talk about themselves too much or other people rather than talking about the lady in front of them. However, you are not one of them because you’re a growth-driven guy reading this blog right now.
Instead of saying “My cousin is an accountant” or “I went to Italy last year”, you should say “My intuition is you’re a talented person” or “I think fitness coaches are extroverts” (if she says she is a fitness coach, you should talk about her in the 3rd person; therefore, she doesn’t feel like you’re focusing on her only, even though you’re actually focusing on her). Basically, if you can identify common interests or hobbies that you share with this elegant lady from Eastern Europe, that is the ideal topic.
You are supposed to be the leader in the conversation because you are a real man. Most guys are not very good at conversations as they either never studied this area before or didn’t practice enough on women. But you are clearly not one of them because you are learning from this article right now.
Rather than being unconscious and allowing whatever happens to you, you would be well-advised to have a clear idea of where you’d like to direct the conversation. After the initial small talk at the beginning, you may begin to talk about deeper things like why she does her job, her personality qualities and how she feels about a phenomenon in the society. Please let me explain.
If she says something along the lines of, “I’m studying English Literature at university”, you should secretly analyze the situation:
- Why does this lady want to study English Literature? Because she is intelligent and curious?
- What kind of lady would study English Literature? Perhaps she is a smart woman with good taste?
- How does she feel about English Literature? Maybe she is very proud of what she studies?
After understanding her better, it’s easier for you to direct the conversation with the woman from Eastern Europe. You can try these techniques on ladies who are already in your existing social circle at the beginning, as you should practice these skills on ladies that you’re not really attracted to first. Then when you meet your dream lady from Eastern Europe, you can attract her faster.
How to get an Eastern European woman’s phone number in the right way:
If you’re already mastered conversation skills, you should ask for her phone number so that you can date her. But the conversation has to flow naturally and smoothly without showing you’re asking for her phone number too directly. Let me show you an example now.
MAN: “What food do you like most?”
WOMAN: “I like Italian food.”
MAN: “Have you ever been to the Italian restaurant in the city center?”
WOMAN: “No, not yet.”
MAN: “I’d like to try that Italian restaurant for dinner tomorrow. And I think you should join me.”
MAN: “OK. What’s your telephone number?”
In this example, you can see that it’s paramount to find some common interest that leads to a connection naturally. Then it’s easier to ask for her telephone number. Incidentally, even if you’ve failed to direct the conversation toward a telephone number closing, you may still get this elegant Eastern European lady’s phone number and change the dynamics. Please check out this example now:
MAN: “Okay. I have to go now. Otherwise, my friends will hate me. But I actually think we can talk to each other later. Do you have Instagram? Oh, no, I hate Instagram. What about giving me your telephone number?”
“Eastern European ladies appreciate western men who are genuine and sincere, so you’d better build a real connection with them first.”