In this online dating era, single men and single women must know how to leverage this resource to improve their love lives. If you are a single guy looking for a serious relationship that will make you truly happy, you are in for a treat right now because today I’m going to show you how to master dating as a key skill that will make you confident and satisfied.
- Your Assets VS Your Obstacles:
Everyone has a set of assets that they are proud of. Meanwhile, everyone also has a set of obstacles that they have to deal with. For example, the established and successful guy says, “I wish I looked like him” while looking at the young and inexperienced guy. At the same time, the young and inexperienced guy says, “I wish I were as sophisticated as him” while looking at the established and successful guy.
You have to know what your assets are and make the most of them. Also, you need to be aware of your obstacles and work on aspects that you can improve & make peace with things that you can’t change.
Your goal in this life is to know what you are good at and make the most of what you are good at. Worrying about things that you cannot change is only a waste of time.
As I see it, the only person that you should compare yourself to is your past self. Are you making progress every day? Have you become the better version of yourself today?
Before you join an online dating website, you might need to think about what your assets are and what your obstacles are, and then you’d better take action immediately.
- Always know what to say.
Research shows that people who are good at online dating always know what to say. Don’t get me wrong. I’m definitely not saying these people are perfect conversationalists. I mean they tend to prepare content before chatting with others online, e.g., they practiced storytelling beforehand; they use some uncommon vocabulary….
A study indicates that prepared lines help people to overcome anxiety when it comes to dating. Indeed, if you are very well-prepared, you feel less nervous.
Without the weird and awkward silence on a date, you also feel more relaxed – you know what to say because you have prepared some content in advance!
Be sure to read dating books, learn from dating blogs and prepare stories that you want to tell on a date with a woman that you are deeply attracted to. Never stop learning and never stop improving yourself!
“Two people are making plans for the movie theater and they wonder if they should have an emergency evacuation plan when there is a fire. The first person says, ‘We don’t need to have an evacuation plan because if there is a fire, people will panic and this place will be a mess anyway.’ The second person says, ‘We need a plan because if there’s a fire, at least people will panic in the right direction.’ Therefore, even if you have dating anxiety, you still need to have a plan because it’s better to panic in the right direction. 😉”
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