Making her fall in love with you on the first date

Are you getting ready for the first date? You can make her fall in love with you if you know how to impress her in the right ways!

• Don’t talk too fast.

When you are nervous, you might talk faster. That’s why you shouldn’t talk too fast on the first date. 

Slow down. Pause. Hold eye contact. You need some time to feel the chemistry. Smile. Let her contribute to the conversation a bit more.

If the date goes well, she should talk more than you do. The person who has more power usually talks relatively less and listens more on the date. 😉

• Don’t give her compliments about her beauty.

Remember, if a woman is beautiful, she actually knows it. She is aware of her beauty based on the way other people treat her. 

Maybe she is a model. Perhaps her photos are in magazines. Someone like that has heard many people saying how good-looking she is, so a compliment about her looks isn’t special.

Make sure you give her a compliment about something that has nothing to do with her beauty. Take a look at the example below.

HIM: What do you do for a living?

HER: I was an office admin for five years, but I didn’t like my day job, so I started my business during my spare time. Now my business is generating enough income, so I’ve resigned from my day job and focus on my business.

HIM: I’m impressed by your hard work.

This compliment is based on what she has done rather than what she looks like, so it’s more special and significantly more meaningful.

• Have at least one deep and meaningful interaction before the end of the first date.

If you would like the date to have some emotive power, you need to have at least one deep & meaningful conversation by the end of the date.

That means you shouldn’t keep asking questions because asking various questions changes topics too frequently.

You’d better ask a good question and make the interaction interesting so that she will want to see you again for the second date.

“Don’t make the first date too long! Ideally, you would be well-advised to end the date when both of you are really into it so she can’t wait to see you again soon.”