How to Have a Great Relationship with Your Total Opposite

Posted by on October 23rd, 2017 in Relationships
Opposite Relationship

Many people think that a relationship with someone you are totally opposites with will never work. But that’s not true. There’s a lot of couples who managed to make their relationship work successfully even if they are opposites in many ways. It is not true that lives will be easier when you are with someone who is like you in every way. In fact, having a lot of things in common is sometimes the reason why couples argue and fight. And there’s actually more truth to it when people say that opposites attract. So if you are dating someone who is opposite with you in a lot of ways, you don’t have to worry because there are ways on how you can make your relationship work with them.

Here are some relationship tips you might need.

1. Just remember that you complement each other

One of the advantages of dating your total opposite is that you complement each other. Whatever your weakness could be their strengths, and vice versa. It means that you can fill in each other’s gaps which could be helpful in making your relationship work.

2. Help each other grow

When you are opposite in some ways, you can adapt each others’ strengths so that you can grow individually. You should focus on the positive traits of each other and learn to adopt them so that you can also grow as a person. In the long run, it will also help you grow as a couple.

3. Learn how to compromise

In every relationship, couples must always learn how to compromise. This is even more important when you are with your opposite. You will have a lot of differences, and if you do not handle these differences well, it might cause issues and problems. However, if you learn how to compromise and meet halfway, you can make your relationship last longer. It is important that you know how to be selfless at times and reciprocate each other’s efforts and sacrifices.

4. Be sensitive

Because you are with someone who isn’t like you in many ways, it is natural for you to have varying beliefs and principles about a lot of things. So, if you want to make your relationship work, you need to be sensitive to your partner. Learn how to respect each other’s differences and be careful not to do something or say something that might hurt or offend them. Try to consider your partner’s needs, and if there are times when arguments cannot really be avoided, handle your conflicts properly. Be humble enough to apologize when you make mistakes.

5. Try the hobbies and interests of your partner

There is nothing wrong in having different interests, passion and hobbies but it won’t hurt to give yourself the chance to try out your partner’s hobbies. Aside from having at least some things you can consider as common grounds, you also get to explore some things you might actually find enjoyable. For example, your partner is an adventurous type of person who loves the great outdoors hiking, swimming and all. And you are the one who prefers to stay home to read books or probably bake some pastries. You have nothing to lose if you try those outdoor activities too because it will make your relationship stronger if you do some activities together. At the same time, you get the chance to gain more experience and try the things you have not tried before.

6. Set boundaries

Limitations or boundaries are important in any relationship. There always have to be limits if you want to make your relationship healthy. Because you are opposite in many ways, you need to set expectations about the things you tolerate and not tolerate in a relationship. What is okay with you may not be okay with your partner and vice versa. And it is the reason why everything should be clear. If you do this and stick to your discussion, you will be able to lessen unnecessary fights, disappointments, arguments, and heartbreaks. That’s because you have made everything clear from the very beginning. You know what you expect and what not to expect.

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