6 Signs He is Just Playing Games with You

Posted by on July 21st, 2017 in Dating advice, Relationships
Signs Your Man is not Serious

When you are in the dating scene, it could sometimes be hard to tell whether a man is serious with you or not, especially when he is sending mixed signals. And no matter how much we want to be able to finally be with someone who could take us seriously, there are those guys who would love to take advantage until we realize the real deal.

There are times when we can’t avoid situations when guys would be playing games but that’s not entirely because they want you to get hurt. There are just times when all that they want is to boost their ego, or he simply does it because he found an opportunity to. Nevertheless, being in this situation is something that no one ever deserves.

If you want to know if you are being played on, here are the tell-tale signs.

1. They were quick to fall in love

While it is not entirely wrong and impossible to fall in love fast, what most players would say that they have fallen in love with right at the moment they met you. They would make you believe that you are the one they have been waiting for. Be careful with these types of guys because true and pure love takes time to grow. You may get attracted and infatuated with someone the moment you see and meet them, but you can’t tell for sure that it is love right away. Don’t fall prey into this trap.

2. They don’t usually share details

Being vague could also be a sign that he is not serious with you, especially when you ask him certain questions, like his plans for the day or how his day went. Someone who is ready for a commitment will be willing to let you know them better. They will be the one to talk about the details and even the tiniest details about their lives.

3. They don’t make concrete plans with you

A guy who is interested to be with you will always have you in his mind when he makes plans. For example, he will get in touch with you even before the weekend comes so that he can ask you out. And that’s because he really wants to spend time with you. On the other hand, a guy who is not interested is someone who is always unsure about his plans. He can’t make decisions and he can’t make plans with you. He will just reach out to you whenever he wants to and whenever he feels like it.

4. He hides his phone from you

This does not mean that you have to really take a look or peek whenever he is using his phone, but when you notice that he purposely hides his phone when you are around could be suspicious. It could be a sign that you are being played. Why does he even have to hide it in the first place if there was nothing to hide?

Another alarming sign that you should watch out for is when he constantly checks his phone when you two are together then he suddenly leaves after he gets a message.

5. You are not being introduced as a girlfriend

When he brings you to his friends, you are only introduced as a friend and he does not tell them that you are dating. This is especially true when there are other girls around. If he likes you and he has good intentions, he will be more than glad and he will be proud to let people know that you are dating.

6. You do not talk about feelings and emotions

If he does not have plans of taking you seriously, he will talk about emotions and feelings. He will also brush it off when you start to bring up the topic. That’s because he knows he cannot reciprocate how you feel and he knows that he does not see himself loving you seriously. In short, he does not want to be emotionally involved just yet, not with you, nor with anyone. This sign is already a red flag you should not ignore and you better start walking away.

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