How to start online dating in the right way after a breakup

After a breakup, perhaps you’ve become a changed person because chances are even your worldview can be changed by a breakup. No matter how difficult the breakup is, you can always start something new – a new career, a new business, a new relationship…. In this blog article, I’m going to show you the right way to start online dating after a breakup.

• Online dating is the most efficient way to find real love.

Because you went through a breakup, now you have more experience in dating and relationships. More importantly, now you have better insights into who you are and what you are looking for. As a result, I’m sure your self-awareness and confidence will make you a more competent dater.

If you are an open-minded guy, you have probably considered meeting someone from another country because this is a big world – there are many genuine, elegant and single ladies in Eastern Europe who are looking for serious relationships with men just like you. And online dating is the fastest way to meet these high-quality candidates in record time, thereby building meaningful and long-lasting relationships instantly.

In the past, if you were dating someone in a different country, you would have to send letters by post and wait for weeks (if not months) for a response. Yet nowadays you can chat with people from other countries on the Internet at any time. Clearly, the Internet has fundamentally transformed how people find partners in this day and age.

Thanks to online dating, now you have access to a large number of candidates on your laptop. All you need to do is to start conversations with women on the Internet and find the right person through chatting online. Then you can organize an international trip to meet your lady.

• How to overcome fear of rejection:

Research shows that online dating has helped many people to overcome fear of rejection because daters can’t see each other immediately on the Internet – the process doesn’t start from a face-to-face conversation, so most people wouldn’t have fear of rejection while sending messages online.

But if you are still worried about fear of rejection, I have some suggestions for you:

1. In a way, looking for a partner is just like looking for a job – you attend many job interviews – some hiring managers won’t hire you, but you only need one job, so as long as one hiring manager hires you, that’s great. Frankly, not every job is right for you and you certainly don’t like every job on the market anyway.
2. Looking for a partner is also similar to going shopping in a way – let’s say you need to buy a shirt – chances are you have to go to a few different stores before finding the right shirt. After going to 4 stores, you wouldn’t say the right shirt doesn’t exist; you will keep looking for the right shirt till you find it.
3. If you never had a rejection, that means you were only reaching for the low-hanging fruit, which isn’t ideal. Ideally, you need some rejections because when you have a rejection, you know you’ve tried your best already, so now you can sleep well at night. What should keep you awake at night is allowing fear of rejection to hold you back/stop you from starting a conversation with the lady that you like. As I see it, if you are doing it right, you should have rejections. I’m sure that’s liberating.

I hope you find this blog post helpful & I wish you true love, deep joy and huge success.

“Online dating gives you the abundance and the freedom to meet the love of your life no matter where you are.”