We have to acknowledge that western culture is different from Eastern European culture. Therefore, there are certain things that you can say to western women, but you can’t say them to Ukrainian women if you would like to date them.
- “Are you always so friendly to men?”
You meet a Ukrainian woman, and she is very nice to you. Please never ask her, “Are you always so friendly to men?”
This question has two connotations:
- She is very easy to get.
- You rarely get any friendly response from women.
Both connotations are negative, so they set up the wrong frames for you. Therefore, please avoid saying this to women!
I understand that sometimes “Are you always so friendly to men?” can work pretty well because it means she is only so friendly to you – she doesn’t like other men – she only likes you. But that doesn’t happen often, so please simply don’t say this to women. The right frame is paramount!
Remember, women want to be respected, and they want you to cherish the relationships that you have with them.
Be sure to respect women’s boundaries. Don’t violate their standards.

- Should you explain yourself?
No. You shouldn’t explain yourself. A confident guy doesn’t need to explain himself because he knows what he is doing & he is aware of his worth.
When you are interacting with Ukrainian women, never explain yourself to them. You are the high-value guy; she is lucky to be with you. You are here to interview her and see if she is the right person to be your girlfriend.
Please note that when you explain yourself, you are putting her on a pedestal, so the relationship becomes a one-way street which isn’t healthy at all.
Mutual respect is the foundation of a successful relationship. If you explain yourself to her, you might become the submissive pushover or the doormat that get walked all over. That’s beta behavior. Don’t forget that you are an alpha guy, a true leader in the relationship.
Be nonreactive whenever you are tested. Remain calm, relaxed, dominant & confident. Never seek other people’s approval. You’ll be the ultimate attractive guy!
The good news is Ukrainian women are very classy and honest people that you can trust because they have very traditional values.
“Your integrity and authenticity are the most attractive qualities!”
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