What is micro-leading and how does it help you date Ukrainian women?

When you are on a date with a Ukrainian woman, you need to show your leadership in the relationship because you are a man. Remember, Ukrainian ladies expect their men to be leaders in the dynamics. Micro-leading refers to subtle behaviors that demonstrate your leadership skills. 😊

• Direct her to sit at a particular seat.

If you are going out with a Ukrainian woman for a coffee date, you can say, “You grab this seat because it’s got the better view.” 

This establishes two things at the beginning of the date:

1. You are the leader in this relationship because you tell her what to do.

2. You are chivalrous because you are giving her a seat with the better view.

• Subtly shift your body language.

While you are chatting with her on the date, you can slightly shift your body language. For example, you might lean against the wall/bar/chair/etc. Or you can shift your body language at your seat. 

Then you observe whether she adjusts her body language in order to face you or not. If she is attracted to you, she would shift her body language accordingly.

• Change the venue.

After having a coffee in a coffeehouse with her, you can change the venue by saying something along the lines of, “Speaking of art, there is a really good gallery nearby. Let’s go to the gallery now. I’ll show you the work of XYZ artist.”

When you change the venue, you are showcasing leadership skills through your behavior. Also, because the date consists of several different venues, she will feel that she has known you for a longer period of time psychologically. As a result, the emotional connection becomes stronger.
Frankly, you can use this technique even when you are not on a date with a Ukrainian woman. Let’s say you meet a lady at a friend’s housewarming party. You can say this to her, “I really want to hear what you are saying. It’s so noisy here, so let’s go to the balcony.”

This statement does two things:

1. You’ve become the leader of the interaction.

2. She knows that her contribution to the conversation has got your attention, meaning her beauty/attractiveness alone can’t attract you (she has to show you her good qualities).

Even if you meet a woman at a club, this technique can work as well because you can say something like, “I really want to hear what you’re saying, but this place is too noisy, so let’s go outside.”

In fact, this technique helps you to isolate the person you would like to meet and connect with if both of you are in a big crowd. Therefore, it’s a highly effective way to establish a connection fast. 😉

“Try these techniques on your next date and enjoy the results!”